You're not responsible for him. He has made his own choices. You don't have to share them. You don't have to try to reform him, which is a lost cause anyway. You don't have to live with him. You could visit him as often as you feel comfortable with. He doesn't want your help. Accept reality. Move on.
You're the first person to take the time to try and help. I appreciate that! I do feel like I have to be responsible because no one else will step up to the plate, including himself. Its an eye opening situation to realize but I'm the parent of a crazy chimpanzee now. Called Daddy.
You're not responsible for him. He has made his own choices. You don't have to share them. You don't have to try to reform him, which is a lost cause anyway. You don't have to live with him. You could visit him as often as you feel comfortable with. He doesn't want your help. Accept reality. Move on.
You're the first person to take the time to try and help. I appreciate that! I do feel like I have to be responsible because no one else will step up to the plate, including himself. Its an eye opening situation to realize but I'm the parent of a crazy chimpanzee now. Called Daddy.